Comments on: Ibu http://abahyasir.com/2008/08/ibu/ Ilham rasa . Cetusan . Luahan . Pandangan Sun, 29 Jan 2012 09:04:01 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.3 hourly 1 By: Abah Yasir http://abahyasir.com/2008/08/ibu/comment-page-1/#comment-76 Abah Yasir Sun, 31 Aug 2008 04:32:00 +0000 http://dyntv.com/abahyasir/2008/08/ibu/#comment-76 We can tegur parent, but in a nice way. Make sure it does't hurt their feeling. We can follow the teaching from hadith, let me me quote in malay..'Sesiapa yang melihat kemungkaran hendaklah ia cegah dengan tangannya (kuasa), jika tidak mampu dengan lidahnya (nasihat)dan jika tidak mampu dengan hati (rasa benci pada perbuatan mungkar bukan orangnya), maka itulah selemah-lemah iman' We can tegur parent, but in a nice way. Make sure it does’t hurt their feeling. We can follow the teaching from hadith, let me me quote in malay..’Sesiapa yang melihat kemungkaran hendaklah ia cegah dengan tangannya (kuasa), jika tidak mampu dengan lidahnya (nasihat)dan jika tidak mampu dengan hati (rasa benci pada perbuatan mungkar bukan orangnya), maka itulah selemah-lemah iman’

]]> By: Nas Aura Mustika http://abahyasir.com/2008/08/ibu/comment-page-1/#comment-75 Nas Aura Mustika Fri, 29 Aug 2008 17:14:00 +0000 http://dyntv.com/abahyasir/2008/08/ibu/#comment-75 Tersentuh juga bila kita bercerita tentang pengalaman seorang ibu. Andai kata seorang anak itu sanggup menzalami ibu kandung sendiri dengan kata-kata kesat sedemikian rupa, saya rasa, tidak ada gunanya hidup di dunia ini.<br/><br/>Posting kali ini menyedarkan diri kita betapa kasih seorang ibu tidak boleh ditukar ganti ataupun dipersia-siakan. Ustaz Yusri mampu menyampaikan mesej penting kali ini dengan menyelitkan unsur-unsur humor dalam posting beliau.<br/><br/>Biar entri kali ini sedikit emo, tapi Ustaz berhasil buat saya tersenyum sinis apabila membacanya. hehe Tersentuh juga bila kita bercerita tentang pengalaman seorang ibu. Andai kata seorang anak itu sanggup menzalami ibu kandung sendiri dengan kata-kata kesat sedemikian rupa, saya rasa, tidak ada gunanya hidup di dunia ini.

Posting kali ini menyedarkan diri kita betapa kasih seorang ibu tidak boleh ditukar ganti ataupun dipersia-siakan. Ustaz Yusri mampu menyampaikan mesej penting kali ini dengan menyelitkan unsur-unsur humor dalam posting beliau.

Biar entri kali ini sedikit emo, tapi Ustaz berhasil buat saya tersenyum sinis apabila membacanya. hehe

]]> By: Ummu Mukhtaar http://abahyasir.com/2008/08/ibu/comment-page-1/#comment-74 Ummu Mukhtaar Fri, 29 Aug 2008 00:02:00 +0000 http://dyntv.com/abahyasir/2008/08/ibu/#comment-74 Assalamu'alaikum wr. wb.,<br/><br/>Alhamdulillah, Ustaz has written this posting with regards to mother (both parents in general).<br/><br/>What your friend has advised you years ago was definitely very wise indeed. In tasawwuf, how bad parent/s is/are, it is an adab not to tegur. Correct me if I am wrong, Ustaz. In fact, it is our duty as a child to our parents to respect them and care for them despite the position and condition that they are in. <br/><br/>Normally, we realize this matter after we are married, especially those who are staying on our own, without our parents staying with us. Only then, we realize how much sacrifice our parents have gone through bringing us up, although there were times that we might think that our parents did not love us. So simple we accused our parents likewise then! Astaghfirullah...<br/><br/>The dua of our parents especially our mothers are easily makbul. Just like the story of Tanggang. We may think that Tanggang is just a show, but it happens in real life. If a mother is to curse her child, Allah may grant the mother's wishes (through her dua). <br/><br/>May Allah protect us from going against our parents, as long as they do not go against His religion. Ameen.<br/><br/>Jum'ah Mubarak wa Ramadhan Mubarak! Assalamu’alaikum wr. wb.,

Alhamdulillah, Ustaz has written this posting with regards to mother (both parents in general).

What your friend has advised you years ago was definitely very wise indeed. In tasawwuf, how bad parent/s is/are, it is an adab not to tegur. Correct me if I am wrong, Ustaz. In fact, it is our duty as a child to our parents to respect them and care for them despite the position and condition that they are in.

Normally, we realize this matter after we are married, especially those who are staying on our own, without our parents staying with us. Only then, we realize how much sacrifice our parents have gone through bringing us up, although there were times that we might think that our parents did not love us. So simple we accused our parents likewise then! Astaghfirullah…

The dua of our parents especially our mothers are easily makbul. Just like the story of Tanggang. We may think that Tanggang is just a show, but it happens in real life. If a mother is to curse her child, Allah may grant the mother’s wishes (through her dua).

May Allah protect us from going against our parents, as long as they do not go against His religion. Ameen.

Jum’ah Mubarak wa Ramadhan Mubarak!

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